He's too short.
She is too fat.
He doesn't have a good enough job?
She's not white.
He's not Jewish.
Despite what you may have learned from the school of Hollywood, love does not always have to come to you in the most sexiest package.
- Six pak abs
- Small waist lines
- Huge bust lines
Are all good to have in a mate. A sexy body can easily get your mojo going but thats not where the beauty of love lies.
Because even physical beauty can get boring.
Need some proof?
Check out any of the latest celebrity gossip columns and you will find out who is the latest sexy diva to get dumped.
Even the most beautiful people in Hollywood will and do get played and by broke Bustas too.
Just take a peek into the lives of people like:
- Bobby Brown and Whitney Houston.
- Brittany Spears
- Terrell Owens even though he is considered a great champion, with body to die for, he tried to kill himself just the other day.
So really what does having it all really mean?
Does it mean that you are safe from ridicule from others and self destruction, look at the list above again then you tell me if they where saved.
Why does your girlfriend have to be slim? Your seeing a nice plus sized woman now but you don't want to commit to her because shes a little plump, thats not right.
What does your vanity stand for?
Love is so powerful that it can transform the ugly into a thing of beauty. You should have faith that that truism will work for you too.
Beauty and the Beast is the story that already taught the world that.
The evidence is abundantly clear.
You should never sabotage your chances at true love because of conceited vanity.
People who still think along those lines, can be easily be accused of having the enlightenment of someone who lived in the 18th century, when the Beauty and the Beast was written.
Here are 5 signs that indicate that your vanity maybe keeping you lonely
- You have too many do's, don't s and physical traits that you want your ideal partner to have.
- You look for petty reasons to get into a hurtful arguments.
- You are always looking for outside approval of others about your potential long term mate.
- You classify your lover as just a "friend".
- You make dates then at the last minute, you cancel or don't follow through.
Listen folks...
If you have someone in your life who can manage to keep a profound interest in you despite the fact that you are acting like an arrogant jack ass then you can consider yourself one of the lucky ones.
Because what usually happens to those of us who have become experts in our own vain imagination is that we end up becoming, old, cold and alone.
Remember that true happiness comes from one thing--spiritual transcendence and that is something that even your closest lover or friend cannot give you-- self actualization is something you reach through positive relationships with others, no matter what they have or look like..
Maslow has already proved this to us with his hierarchy of needs.
Your ideal mate my not be look like Megan Good, Beyonce or Brad Pitt 10 years ago but they can provide the key ingredients you need that can help you most one step higher on the pyramid of life.
Besides, if you didn't have some type of love or attraction to the people to come around you and want to be your "friend" then they would not come around you--it that simple.
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