Sensual seduction can only begin when you have the confidence in knowing that the man your are trying to pursue is genuinely turned on by you.
Just like us women, men can also be great fakers and they can pretend that they are all in to you when in fact they are not.
Despite to what you have been led to believe men are not only attracted to the sexiest woman in the room.
Men also like and pursue women that have a personality that they can intimately identify with.
Have you ever noticed a ugly, bad shaped women walking around with a fine ass man on their arms?
I am sure you have, and the reason why some of these type of relationships happen is because the woman smart enough not to rely on her looks alone to snap up the man of their dreams.
These women have figured out other ways to lure men in.
How do you think that these "ugly" women figure out how to reel in fine ass men? The trick that they use the most is listening.
They listen to what men say they need and they find a way to offer it.
Therefore, if you want to snag your own fine ass man the first step to use in getting him to notice you is to be a good listener.
Listening in the seductive process involves more that using your ears because you also have to listen with your eyes.
Listening is the process of putting your minds energy in a state of receiving. In the listening state you become like a radio antennae that is able to pick up on the delicate cues that men give off when they are relating to you.
The best way to listen to a man that is the object of your desire is to stay quiet at first and watch him when he is talking.
When he is talking look at him in his eyes. Smile at him when he notices you and if its appropriate give a little giggle and pretend that you are embarrassed that he knows you have been "staring". By doing this you are making the conversation he is having with your sort of personal.
Continue to watch and only engage in the conversation from time to time. By doing this you will come off as an articulate and intelligent woman who is not obsessed with talking about herself.
But don't give him too much attention, only stay engaged enough to send the clear signal that you like what he is all about.
When you feel that he has picked up on your energy then thats your cue to tone it down a bit.
The way you tone down your attentions is by looking at something or someone else. Divert your attentions to another man in the room. If thats not feasible turn and talk to one of your girlfriends but if all else fails jump on your cell phone and make an important phone call.
When he notices that you are not paying attention to him like your were doing before if he likes you then his ego will not be able to stand it and he will begin to pursue you.
If he's interested in you, you can expect him to seek you out. He might move closer to where you are standing or he might even ask you a direct question, something like: "How have you been enjoying yourself?"
If he gets the feeling that you like him and you are not paying him any attention anymore. He is going to find any excuse to engage you more.
When he does this, flirt with him a little bit, touch him softly on his hands, speak in a girly, sexy voice and giggle. Men love to think that they can make a woman laugh.
At this point you will have him in the palm of your hands. He will be yours, ready and willing to play, ready and willing to fuck(be careful now) and this is the time when you begin to use your sexual feminine wiles to make him more interested in you.
If you have reached this point, you should feel confident because you will probably be the only lady in the room with the upper hand of having shared a personal moment with him earlier.
So don't think getting a man is all about how you look because if you follow these tips, that flat stomached shapely girl with the dress up to her ass will not have a chance. No one will be able to beat you at getting this man because you have been listening to his cues for a while and you have gotten a chance to know a couple of things about him that the other woman in the room are not aware of.
Therefore you will be able to flirt with him on a level that your competion will not be able to.
Fact: Men will spend more time pursuing a woman that he thinks he can get than a fine ass woman that is not giving him the time of the day.
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